I have decided to leave my job. It's something wrong when I never really feel like going to work. We had a staff meeting yesterday and what was said there really made me decide. i don't want to be at a place where it si ok that your boss can't give a straight answer abut anything, where he can't take responsability for things that he has done and only blames everyone else for his mistakes.
I really don't know where I'll end up but it can't really get any worse... or at least I hope not.
Had a party last Saturday. First dinner at home with Mr S, H and sis and then off to work where we had a tasting of the new drink list. Let's just say that I downed a Long Island Ice tea in about 3 minutes.... and then the rest of the night is a blank. According to friends I seemed to have a great time. Sunday wasn't all that good though. We were supposed to go look for a new kitchen but since I didn't make it out of bed we never went. Instead we stayed in and watched a few movies: Sideways (again), The Holiday (2,5/5) and C.R.A.Z.Y an absolutely lovely canadian movie about a guy growing up in the 60ies and 70ies. I definetely give it 4,5/5.
These last couple of weeks have been all about work, or almost.
Went to a friends birthday party and that was... let's just say interesting. I know Mr S is really good looking (and I'm not just saying it because he is my man) but for some of my girlfriend to seriously try to hook up with him... Comments like: "I would do anything to fulfill all your sexual fantasies" or "Let's go outside and get to know eachother" from some of my women friends is just not ok.
Coming on to a friends partner is in my book a big no-no!
Wedding updates:
Trying to decide on the food. We have narrowed it down to a list of about 25 different dishes for the buffet.
Read in one of the scary wedding magazines that apparently I'm supposed to start a diet and start workng on my skin tone since "all brides wants to look their best". I thought that was why they invented make up ;)
And to make matters even worse I'm supposed to find a "Wedding scent" - a special perfume that I only use for this one occation. Talk about money wasted!
Take care
/E
Song of the day: Sexy Back - Justin Timberlake
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
10 to 1 of me
Got this from my fierce email pal. She speaks I obey....
10 first:
1. First best friend: Jenny - best friend from age 7 until age 12 when she moved
2. First car: Mercedes CLK (belongs to Mr S but I drive it)
3. First love: Andy, I was 11
4. First pet: Troll the cat
5. First vacation: The Canary Islands with my family, I was 6 and nearly drowned in the pool
6. First job: Summer job at dads office
7. First record ever bought: Animalize by KISS (I think)
8. First real love: First boyfriend L I suppose
9. First piercing: Ears
10. First concert: Prince!!
9 latest:
1. Latest alcohol: A bottle of Billecart Salmon share with Mr S
2. Latest road trip: Round Lake Malaren with Mr S last weekend
3. Latest movie: Music and Lyrics (3,5/5)
4. Latest phone call: Sis (no answer)
5. Latest bubble bath: At Sundyholm with Mr S
6. Latest kiss: Mr S this morning
7. Last time I cried: Almost cried on Sunday night
8. Last meal: Hot lemon and ginger water for breakfast - it tastes better than it sounds
9. Last CD played: My own home made mix in the car last weekend
8 have you ever:
1. Dated one of your best friends: No never
2. Fell in love at first sight: Love no - lust yes
3. Caught your eye in someone cleavage: Uuuhmm yes
4. Had your heart broken: Oh yes
5. Said I love you and didn't mean it: Yes
6. Had a one night stand: Yes
7. Crank called someone: Oh yes!
8. Stolen something: Yes, candy when I was a kid
7 missings:
1. My pink high heeled shoes
2. My black shorts
3. My favourite pair of sunglasses
4. Several pairs of gloves
5. A lot of money I made
6. Friends I miss
7. Books I've lent to people
6 things you've done today:
1. Read " 11 minutes" by Paolo Coehlo
2. Had breakfast
3. Read the paper
4. Watched Rewind 1997 on MTV
5. Checked my email and answered some
6. Watched Miami Vice
5 favourites (not in order)
1. My Ipod
2. Mr S
3. My phone
4. Paris
5. My new black bag
4 people you'd tell anything
Sis, Mr S, girlfriend H and ....
3 choices:
1. Blue or red: Red
2. Summer or Winter: Summer
3. Chocolate or potato chips: None
2 things you want to do before you die:
1. See the world
2. Be happy
1 thing you regret:
1. All the things I never did
So 10 to 1 one you??
Song of the Day: Grace Kelly - Mika
10 first:
1. First best friend: Jenny - best friend from age 7 until age 12 when she moved
2. First car: Mercedes CLK (belongs to Mr S but I drive it)
3. First love: Andy, I was 11
4. First pet: Troll the cat
5. First vacation: The Canary Islands with my family, I was 6 and nearly drowned in the pool
6. First job: Summer job at dads office
7. First record ever bought: Animalize by KISS (I think)
8. First real love: First boyfriend L I suppose
9. First piercing: Ears
10. First concert: Prince!!
9 latest:
1. Latest alcohol: A bottle of Billecart Salmon share with Mr S
2. Latest road trip: Round Lake Malaren with Mr S last weekend
3. Latest movie: Music and Lyrics (3,5/5)
4. Latest phone call: Sis (no answer)
5. Latest bubble bath: At Sundyholm with Mr S
6. Latest kiss: Mr S this morning
7. Last time I cried: Almost cried on Sunday night
8. Last meal: Hot lemon and ginger water for breakfast - it tastes better than it sounds
9. Last CD played: My own home made mix in the car last weekend
8 have you ever:
1. Dated one of your best friends: No never
2. Fell in love at first sight: Love no - lust yes
3. Caught your eye in someone cleavage: Uuuhmm yes
4. Had your heart broken: Oh yes
5. Said I love you and didn't mean it: Yes
6. Had a one night stand: Yes
7. Crank called someone: Oh yes!
8. Stolen something: Yes, candy when I was a kid
7 missings:
1. My pink high heeled shoes
2. My black shorts
3. My favourite pair of sunglasses
4. Several pairs of gloves
5. A lot of money I made
6. Friends I miss
7. Books I've lent to people
6 things you've done today:
1. Read " 11 minutes" by Paolo Coehlo
2. Had breakfast
3. Read the paper
4. Watched Rewind 1997 on MTV
5. Checked my email and answered some
6. Watched Miami Vice
5 favourites (not in order)
1. My Ipod
2. Mr S
3. My phone
4. Paris
5. My new black bag
4 people you'd tell anything
Sis, Mr S, girlfriend H and ....
3 choices:
1. Blue or red: Red
2. Summer or Winter: Summer
3. Chocolate or potato chips: None
2 things you want to do before you die:
1. See the world
2. Be happy
1 thing you regret:
1. All the things I never did
So 10 to 1 one you??
Song of the Day: Grace Kelly - Mika
Monday, April 02, 2007
All work
and no play makes E a very unhappy bitch so this weekend I will play :)
Mr S and me are going to a mansion/hotel to drink champagne, eat a 7 course meal and have sex ;)
I have worked way too much lately and so has he so we haven't hardly spent any time together. My job is absolute chaos. One waiter was fired and our head waitress has quit. This leaves me and two other to do what five people used to do. Got to looove it...
Went out with my coworkers for AW. It's just that these days any after work action begins at 2 in the morning. Any way, we went to a place right next to work. As I got home Mr S was half asleep so we only briefly spoke. The next day he came home just as I was leaving for work and he asked if there was something I wanted to tell him. I said no. Apparently one of his ex-girlfriends had seen me the night before and called him in the middle of the night to tell him that I was out with a guy. Oh yes I was out with J, my very gay friend from work. Is this normal behaviour these days? From now on am I supposed to keep looking over my shoulder whenever I got out in case a jealous ex is lurking around ready to report back to Mr S??
Spring has arrived to Mr S took his summer toy out for a spin on Saturday and on Sunday I got to drive it. I got my learners permit and Mr S has decided that I'm going to get my drivers permit by this summer. I doubt it....
As I was parking in the garage yesterday I smacked into a Porsche....It was quite awkward actually, luckily the owner wasn't around. But I wrote down his registration and today I have to call and confess my sins.
I did however look very fierce with the roof top down and and wearing sunglasses.
This weekend when we are going to the mansion/hotel I am going to get to drive :) It's located just outside of Eskilstuna about 1,5 hrs from Stockholm. Am really looking forward to the weekend.
Wedding update: We met with the coordinator and now it's up to us to decide on food and drinks.... So there are no real progress worth mentioning...
Take care
/E
Song of the day: Beautiful Liar - Beyonce & Shakira
Mr S and me are going to a mansion/hotel to drink champagne, eat a 7 course meal and have sex ;)
I have worked way too much lately and so has he so we haven't hardly spent any time together. My job is absolute chaos. One waiter was fired and our head waitress has quit. This leaves me and two other to do what five people used to do. Got to looove it...
Went out with my coworkers for AW. It's just that these days any after work action begins at 2 in the morning. Any way, we went to a place right next to work. As I got home Mr S was half asleep so we only briefly spoke. The next day he came home just as I was leaving for work and he asked if there was something I wanted to tell him. I said no. Apparently one of his ex-girlfriends had seen me the night before and called him in the middle of the night to tell him that I was out with a guy. Oh yes I was out with J, my very gay friend from work. Is this normal behaviour these days? From now on am I supposed to keep looking over my shoulder whenever I got out in case a jealous ex is lurking around ready to report back to Mr S??
Spring has arrived to Mr S took his summer toy out for a spin on Saturday and on Sunday I got to drive it. I got my learners permit and Mr S has decided that I'm going to get my drivers permit by this summer. I doubt it....
As I was parking in the garage yesterday I smacked into a Porsche....It was quite awkward actually, luckily the owner wasn't around. But I wrote down his registration and today I have to call and confess my sins.
I did however look very fierce with the roof top down and and wearing sunglasses.
This weekend when we are going to the mansion/hotel I am going to get to drive :) It's located just outside of Eskilstuna about 1,5 hrs from Stockholm. Am really looking forward to the weekend.
Wedding update: We met with the coordinator and now it's up to us to decide on food and drinks.... So there are no real progress worth mentioning...
Take care
/E
Song of the day: Beautiful Liar - Beyonce & Shakira
Monday, March 19, 2007
Wait a minute
I seriously need a break! Some sun would be nice too. I don't ask for much: a week end in a warm place with some food, some wine and a lot Mr S...
Work is boring. Mr M is getting fired for "having criticised the management". I guess we live in North Chorea now and not a democracy. What he did was he sent a letter to or bosses with some remarks and ideas how to improve our work situation. Next year, in February, a new design hotel will open just around the corner from my job and that means some serious competition. And they are getting Marcus Samuelsson from Aqvavit in New York to start up their dining room.
Sometimes I don't know why I even bother...
This week we are meeting with the wedding coordinator person...I am not looking forward to that. She does not share my opinion about how the bar is the most important factor at a party.
It's just simple math: people drink - people relax - people have fun or drink themselves into oblivion to forget a crappy party! Simple!!
I didn't buy The Dream Bag. Well, at least I haven't bought it yet, instead I got a pair of black high heels and a bag from Zara. I will look fab wearing them :)
My mother called and informed me that she is hosting a family get together in two weeks. Since I never went to the last one not coming isn't an option. All my cousins i.e The Dull Crowd will be there with their kids. And so I expect a lot of questions about wedding and family plans etc etc.
I wonder why it is mostly women who find it so provocative when I say that children are not in my plans... ever. Sometimes I think they look upon me like a freak. Well, I guess I'll be hanging with my lovely child free friends and Mr S and enjoy the live we have chosen for ourselves.
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Wait a minute - PCD
Work is boring. Mr M is getting fired for "having criticised the management". I guess we live in North Chorea now and not a democracy. What he did was he sent a letter to or bosses with some remarks and ideas how to improve our work situation. Next year, in February, a new design hotel will open just around the corner from my job and that means some serious competition. And they are getting Marcus Samuelsson from Aqvavit in New York to start up their dining room.
Sometimes I don't know why I even bother...
This week we are meeting with the wedding coordinator person...I am not looking forward to that. She does not share my opinion about how the bar is the most important factor at a party.
It's just simple math: people drink - people relax - people have fun or drink themselves into oblivion to forget a crappy party! Simple!!
I didn't buy The Dream Bag. Well, at least I haven't bought it yet, instead I got a pair of black high heels and a bag from Zara. I will look fab wearing them :)
My mother called and informed me that she is hosting a family get together in two weeks. Since I never went to the last one not coming isn't an option. All my cousins i.e The Dull Crowd will be there with their kids. And so I expect a lot of questions about wedding and family plans etc etc.
I wonder why it is mostly women who find it so provocative when I say that children are not in my plans... ever. Sometimes I think they look upon me like a freak. Well, I guess I'll be hanging with my lovely child free friends and Mr S and enjoy the live we have chosen for ourselves.
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Wait a minute - PCD
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Perfection
In my quest for the perfection I have found the perfect bag! It's not just a bag - it's a small piece of heaven on earth - simply a masterpiece by the master himself Salvatore Ferragamo. When I was in Firenze some years ago I visited him museum and fell in love. And now I have found the object of my almost uncontrollable desire. It will cost me about 1300 euros but it's money well spent and it'll also give me 1300 new point on my Am Ex Gold card. Whenever I shop I use that as an excuse - the more points I have the more upgrades we'll get on our honeymoon :)
Mr S doesn't really agree with my logic, he said something like: typical women...
On good thing about my job is the give aways: invitations to wine tastings and sample bottles of wine. At the moment I'm working on a Pommery After Work-event. So a nice man from the Pommery agent in Stockholm gave me three small bottles in the coolest bag. Now all I have to do is convince our restaurant manager that this is a wonderful idea. His first comment was: "That is a bit to gay for my taste" He just doesn't get it, which I also told him. Sometimes I wish I could keep my mouth shut! But making that kind of comment it never OK. It just isn't.
Sis' birthday is on Saturday. Since I'm working I have forced her to come and have dinner at the restaurant. I have bought her a book about the south of France since she is going there on vacation. She and some of her friends are renting a car and driving from Cannes. Sounds really nice. What we will do this summer I don't know yet. It seems like it'll just be sis, me, Mr S and M. Henri. But maybe the fewer the better.
I have bought a dress. I'm not yet sure if it's The Dress but it's A Dress, long and red. I would never wear white, it's just not my colour. It was not too expensive, about 370 euros. Next week we are meeting with the wedding coordinator. She comes along with the place for the wedding. I don't really feel like we need one but she might have connections we can use.
She wrote an email to me saying that it is about time that we meet. Good god, we are going to say "Yes" and then just party - no big deal. There'll be no floral arrangements, no seating, no speeches. Just a great bar, good friends, great music and party. How hard can it be?!?!
Now, I have to eat!
Take care/E
Song of the day: Red Blooded Woman - Kylie Minogue
Mr S doesn't really agree with my logic, he said something like: typical women...
On good thing about my job is the give aways: invitations to wine tastings and sample bottles of wine. At the moment I'm working on a Pommery After Work-event. So a nice man from the Pommery agent in Stockholm gave me three small bottles in the coolest bag. Now all I have to do is convince our restaurant manager that this is a wonderful idea. His first comment was: "That is a bit to gay for my taste" He just doesn't get it, which I also told him. Sometimes I wish I could keep my mouth shut! But making that kind of comment it never OK. It just isn't.
Sis' birthday is on Saturday. Since I'm working I have forced her to come and have dinner at the restaurant. I have bought her a book about the south of France since she is going there on vacation. She and some of her friends are renting a car and driving from Cannes. Sounds really nice. What we will do this summer I don't know yet. It seems like it'll just be sis, me, Mr S and M. Henri. But maybe the fewer the better.
I have bought a dress. I'm not yet sure if it's The Dress but it's A Dress, long and red. I would never wear white, it's just not my colour. It was not too expensive, about 370 euros. Next week we are meeting with the wedding coordinator. She comes along with the place for the wedding. I don't really feel like we need one but she might have connections we can use.
She wrote an email to me saying that it is about time that we meet. Good god, we are going to say "Yes" and then just party - no big deal. There'll be no floral arrangements, no seating, no speeches. Just a great bar, good friends, great music and party. How hard can it be?!?!
Now, I have to eat!
Take care/E
Song of the day: Red Blooded Woman - Kylie Minogue
Friday, February 23, 2007
Wine
is a good thing :)
I just ordered 60 bottles of Bonny Doon Pacific Rim Riesling, unfortunately not for myself but for work. If you're in town do stop by and see me and have a glass of Riesling.
Have spent the last few evening in the wine cellar counting bottles. It cold and dark but I like it. Our new bar manager has left a sign on the door leading out into the restaurant saying that we have to smile at our guests...
I've seen him smile once and that was when the owner of the entire hotel chain came for a drink.
Today I might be having dinner with girlfriend M, depends on if I have to work or not. I hope not since I am not in the mood to smile a strangers today.
And it's freezing and snowing today.
A final question: If you could relive your life this far, what would you do differently?
Take care/E
Song of the day: Just the way you are - Barry White
I just ordered 60 bottles of Bonny Doon Pacific Rim Riesling, unfortunately not for myself but for work. If you're in town do stop by and see me and have a glass of Riesling.
Have spent the last few evening in the wine cellar counting bottles. It cold and dark but I like it. Our new bar manager has left a sign on the door leading out into the restaurant saying that we have to smile at our guests...
I've seen him smile once and that was when the owner of the entire hotel chain came for a drink.
Today I might be having dinner with girlfriend M, depends on if I have to work or not. I hope not since I am not in the mood to smile a strangers today.
And it's freezing and snowing today.
A final question: If you could relive your life this far, what would you do differently?
Take care/E
Song of the day: Just the way you are - Barry White
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
The house is warm
Our house warming party was a big hit. I really think everyone had a good time. I had such a good time that I fell asleep at 3 in the morning still in my fab party outfit. I think the last person left at 9 in the morning :) We got a lot of nice gifts and everyone liked the place. Monsieur Henri left us a special gift - Thanks :)
Sis hooked up with a friend of Mr S. And by hooking up I mean really hooking up. Apparently he stayed the night and help her do her laundry the next day. And when I spoke to her yesterday she was going over to his house for dinner...
It seems like she is getting seriously hooked on this guy.
A & M, Mr S' two sons, came and stayed for the week end. I really like them and I think they like me to.
A few days before the party I lost a tooth. A huge part of it just fell out as I was having breakfast. I got a dentist appointment the next morning and now I have a silver coloured replacement while I wait for my new porcelain tooth. I really hate going to the dentist, mine is a fairly nice guy but he still won't give me any Valium.... Wonder if I can buy it online?
Wedding update: We have finally found and booked a place for the party :) We are meeting with the wedding coordinator-woman sometime when our schedules match.
She seems a bit odd.
At work I am now doing inventory in the wine cellars. Counting wine bottles isn't all that fun but I should be ready by the end of this week.
I am also doing a sort of inventory of my personal relationships. Some have proved to be not such great friends as I thought and some turned out to be even better than I thought :) It's hard to "break up" with friends but sometimes you just have to...
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: The Sweet Escape - Gwen Stefani feat. Akon
Sis hooked up with a friend of Mr S. And by hooking up I mean really hooking up. Apparently he stayed the night and help her do her laundry the next day. And when I spoke to her yesterday she was going over to his house for dinner...
It seems like she is getting seriously hooked on this guy.
A & M, Mr S' two sons, came and stayed for the week end. I really like them and I think they like me to.
A few days before the party I lost a tooth. A huge part of it just fell out as I was having breakfast. I got a dentist appointment the next morning and now I have a silver coloured replacement while I wait for my new porcelain tooth. I really hate going to the dentist, mine is a fairly nice guy but he still won't give me any Valium.... Wonder if I can buy it online?
Wedding update: We have finally found and booked a place for the party :) We are meeting with the wedding coordinator-woman sometime when our schedules match.
She seems a bit odd.
At work I am now doing inventory in the wine cellars. Counting wine bottles isn't all that fun but I should be ready by the end of this week.
I am also doing a sort of inventory of my personal relationships. Some have proved to be not such great friends as I thought and some turned out to be even better than I thought :) It's hard to "break up" with friends but sometimes you just have to...
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: The Sweet Escape - Gwen Stefani feat. Akon
Monday, February 05, 2007
Business as usual
Went with Mr S to the Wedding fare at Grand Hotel on Saturday. I never knew the getting hitched is such a huge business. It's all about tha Benjamins...
If you want you can pay people disgusting amounts of money to do the weirdest things for you only because you are getting married. How about having your initials made of ice on the buffet table? Or having confetti with your name and the name of your significant other on?
Have some woman come over and help you get dressed for 200 euros/hour?
Issues like what should you throw at the happy couple after the weeding. Rice is not good for the birds, confetti can stain the clothes and rose petals can cause an allergic reaction...
Afterwards we had a soup and a few glasses of wine at Cadier before meeting up with sis and Hannah for Yakiniku at Sakkura.
The phone woke me on Sunday, David from work called and guess who had to work on a day off. Oh yes, me! I have to be better at saying no.
Other than working I have been shopping, cleaning the apartment, planned a housewarming party on Feb 17th - am really looking forward to that.
I have also been contacted by some very old friends, the kind of old friends that I really don't consider as friends anymore. But they want to make sure that they are invited to the wedding which won't happen. I have decided to surround my self with people who I like and give me positive energy. I am to tired to do anything else!
Now, I must eat!
Take care/E
Song of the day: Fast Train - Solomon Burke
If you want you can pay people disgusting amounts of money to do the weirdest things for you only because you are getting married. How about having your initials made of ice on the buffet table? Or having confetti with your name and the name of your significant other on?
Have some woman come over and help you get dressed for 200 euros/hour?
Issues like what should you throw at the happy couple after the weeding. Rice is not good for the birds, confetti can stain the clothes and rose petals can cause an allergic reaction...
Afterwards we had a soup and a few glasses of wine at Cadier before meeting up with sis and Hannah for Yakiniku at Sakkura.
The phone woke me on Sunday, David from work called and guess who had to work on a day off. Oh yes, me! I have to be better at saying no.
Other than working I have been shopping, cleaning the apartment, planned a housewarming party on Feb 17th - am really looking forward to that.
I have also been contacted by some very old friends, the kind of old friends that I really don't consider as friends anymore. But they want to make sure that they are invited to the wedding which won't happen. I have decided to surround my self with people who I like and give me positive energy. I am to tired to do anything else!
Now, I must eat!
Take care/E
Song of the day: Fast Train - Solomon Burke
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
My evil twin
Girlfriend Jezz brought a person calling him or herself Dan Leffler to my attention. He or she has posted comments on my friends bloggs and webpages posing as me.
If anyone gets an email or a comment from Dan Leffler or EJP (email: serenity_73@gmail.com) then is not me!
Take care/E
Song of the day: The Real Me - R Kelly
If anyone gets an email or a comment from Dan Leffler or EJP (email: serenity_73@gmail.com) then is not me!
Take care/E
Song of the day: The Real Me - R Kelly
Friday, January 26, 2007
Let it snow
Last Saturday the winter really came. I was having afternoon tea with some friends. Going into the cafe the weather was OK... as we were leaving the snow was blowing in sideways. Today it is sunny but really cold. And I am watching the European figure skating championships :)
Met with the Ladies from Sallskapet yesterday. We had a lovely dinner at Ingrid's and exchanged some make up stuff. I walked away with some really nice eye shadows and a fierce top.
Met with sis earlier to go to our favorite shop JUS and their annual sale. I bought a jacket and a pair of pants from POUR. The designer is my friend H's sisters boyfriend....
New on the apartment: We bought a really cool table for the living room. I think it'll work great with the big couch. My apartment is slowly starting to come together :)
I do, however, live with a very neat man. Mr S has filed all my papers in a cupboard, it's a good thought but I can't find them... Annoying! But I guess it's a nice thought from his side.
A nice thing happened at work: I am going to be in charge of the wine cellar :) So for the next two weeks I am going to spend looking through all the bottles. Am really looking forward to this project! It also means that I'll be working on my own and I won't be needing to confront our new Bar manager. I feel quite sorry for him since after two days everyone hated him and he hasn't really improved. I think he is really unsure of him self and need to put people "in their place".
Wedding update: Mr S found a place that seems promising for the party. It down town, we can bring our own booze and it's not too strict. We are going to check it out this weekend.
Take care
/Love E
Song of the day: Like it or Not - Madonna
Met with the Ladies from Sallskapet yesterday. We had a lovely dinner at Ingrid's and exchanged some make up stuff. I walked away with some really nice eye shadows and a fierce top.
Met with sis earlier to go to our favorite shop JUS and their annual sale. I bought a jacket and a pair of pants from POUR. The designer is my friend H's sisters boyfriend....
New on the apartment: We bought a really cool table for the living room. I think it'll work great with the big couch. My apartment is slowly starting to come together :)
I do, however, live with a very neat man. Mr S has filed all my papers in a cupboard, it's a good thought but I can't find them... Annoying! But I guess it's a nice thought from his side.
A nice thing happened at work: I am going to be in charge of the wine cellar :) So for the next two weeks I am going to spend looking through all the bottles. Am really looking forward to this project! It also means that I'll be working on my own and I won't be needing to confront our new Bar manager. I feel quite sorry for him since after two days everyone hated him and he hasn't really improved. I think he is really unsure of him self and need to put people "in their place".
Wedding update: Mr S found a place that seems promising for the party. It down town, we can bring our own booze and it's not too strict. We are going to check it out this weekend.
Take care
/Love E
Song of the day: Like it or Not - Madonna
Thursday, January 11, 2007
Me on 2006
My best memory:
- Vacation with my friends on the riverboat in France
- Meeting Mr S
- Proposal from Mr S
My worst memory:
- Dad getting his cancer diagnose
This year I stopped:
- caring so much of what other think of me
- spending time with people who drag me down
I'd love to take back:
- the great summer
- some things I've said that has hurt some people
And I won't take back:
- the promise I've made to myself to become a happier and stronger person
This year I've read:
- Adrian Mole and the Weapons of Mass destruction
Movies I loved:
- Brokeback Mountain
- The Constant Gardener
- Crash
The stage event of the year:
- Cabaret with Peter Joback
- George Michael live
Most played in my Ipod:
- Save Room - John Legend
TV-favourites:
- CSI
Most overestimated:
- A lot of stuff
Most underestimated:
- Every day luxury like sharing a bottle of champagne with friend on a Tuesday
Discovery of the year:
- Digital TV
People who impresses me:
- Ellen Johnson Sirleaf first woman president in Africa: you go girl!
- The doctors and nurses who work for the MSF
Chock of the year:
- I'm getting married (still can't believe it...)
Hallelujah moment of the year:
- George Michael singing Father Figure live
OK, I admit:
- I missed every episode of Prison Break and Desperate Housewives
I'm sick of:
- reading about teen idols and their messed up lives
I'm happy about:
- my man, my apartment, my family a whole year to fill with fun, shopping and friends
Most excited about for 2007:
- getting the apartment in order
- creating a live with Mr S
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Relax, Take it Easy -Mika
- Vacation with my friends on the riverboat in France
- Meeting Mr S
- Proposal from Mr S
My worst memory:
- Dad getting his cancer diagnose
This year I stopped:
- caring so much of what other think of me
- spending time with people who drag me down
I'd love to take back:
- the great summer
- some things I've said that has hurt some people
And I won't take back:
- the promise I've made to myself to become a happier and stronger person
This year I've read:
- Adrian Mole and the Weapons of Mass destruction
Movies I loved:
- Brokeback Mountain
- The Constant Gardener
- Crash
The stage event of the year:
- Cabaret with Peter Joback
- George Michael live
Most played in my Ipod:
- Save Room - John Legend
TV-favourites:
- CSI
Most overestimated:
- A lot of stuff
Most underestimated:
- Every day luxury like sharing a bottle of champagne with friend on a Tuesday
Discovery of the year:
- Digital TV
People who impresses me:
- Ellen Johnson Sirleaf first woman president in Africa: you go girl!
- The doctors and nurses who work for the MSF
Chock of the year:
- I'm getting married (still can't believe it...)
Hallelujah moment of the year:
- George Michael singing Father Figure live
OK, I admit:
- I missed every episode of Prison Break and Desperate Housewives
I'm sick of:
- reading about teen idols and their messed up lives
I'm happy about:
- my man, my apartment, my family a whole year to fill with fun, shopping and friends
Most excited about for 2007:
- getting the apartment in order
- creating a live with Mr S
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Relax, Take it Easy -Mika
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
My name is Bond
James Bond. As one of the last persons on earth I saw the latest James Bond movie this weekend. It's a pre-quel "how James Bond became the man he is" kind of thing.
Daniel Craig did a good job filling Pierce Brosnan's suit. There was a lot of showing of Daniel's well tones body and a lot of poker playing - something for everyone. I did enjoy the body more than the poker games and I mostly enjoyed Mads Mikkelsen as Le Chiffre, he is really really HOT
One thing I like about Mr S is that he really doesn't care if I comment on another man's look.
Like my psycho-ex boyfriend did.
Any way, after the movie we took a stroll around town to find someplace to have a drink. We ended up at Berns where they have an amazing drink list. Had a few drinks while watching the crowd. It's amazing how little clothes some people put on for a night out. Some get away with it but most people don't.
Sunday Mr S and I watched the first season of CSI on DVD. I really love that series.
And then we went out to his office to pick up some stuff. As I entered the door the alarm went off! Eventually a security guy showed up but that was after about 20 mins... Had it been a break in we would have had plenty of time to empty the whole office and leave.
Oh, and one more thing: to the gentlemen who was kind enough to offer me a date. Thanks but no thank. I have found my love and intend to stay with him, married or not :)
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Ain't no other man - Christina Aguilera
Daniel Craig did a good job filling Pierce Brosnan's suit. There was a lot of showing of Daniel's well tones body and a lot of poker playing - something for everyone. I did enjoy the body more than the poker games and I mostly enjoyed Mads Mikkelsen as Le Chiffre, he is really really HOT
One thing I like about Mr S is that he really doesn't care if I comment on another man's look.
Like my psycho-ex boyfriend did.
Any way, after the movie we took a stroll around town to find someplace to have a drink. We ended up at Berns where they have an amazing drink list. Had a few drinks while watching the crowd. It's amazing how little clothes some people put on for a night out. Some get away with it but most people don't.
Sunday Mr S and I watched the first season of CSI on DVD. I really love that series.
And then we went out to his office to pick up some stuff. As I entered the door the alarm went off! Eventually a security guy showed up but that was after about 20 mins... Had it been a break in we would have had plenty of time to empty the whole office and leave.
Oh, and one more thing: to the gentlemen who was kind enough to offer me a date. Thanks but no thank. I have found my love and intend to stay with him, married or not :)
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Ain't no other man - Christina Aguilera
Thursday, January 04, 2007
New Year
Worked all night on New Years eve at NH. Sis and some friends were there for dinner and celebration. Afterwards we went over to sis' place for a few drinks. Since I was working the nest day too we didn't stay late.
The new bar manager has started and I dislike him already. He seems quite insecure and shows it by trying to put people in their place... Well actually he doesn't really speak to me since I'm a waitress and he is the bar manager, but his attitude annoys the h*ll out of me.
Am quite sick of NH so I'll start looking for a new job.
Mr S is choosing between 2 jobs, the lucky guy. He wants them both.
I am trying to talk him out of getting married and into spending the money on a world wide shopping spree for the two of us. He is not convinced yet and I don't think he ever will be. He wants to get married.
Now, my list of 5 thing I want to happen this year:
1. I'll get a fab job, maybe even run my own wine bar
2. I finally get my drivers license
3. We finish the apartment
4. Mr S and I travel to Paris and Rome
5. I will continue feeling good about myself and become a stronger person.
Best wishes for 2007
Love/E
Song of the day: Stay with you - John Legend
The new bar manager has started and I dislike him already. He seems quite insecure and shows it by trying to put people in their place... Well actually he doesn't really speak to me since I'm a waitress and he is the bar manager, but his attitude annoys the h*ll out of me.
Am quite sick of NH so I'll start looking for a new job.
Mr S is choosing between 2 jobs, the lucky guy. He wants them both.
I am trying to talk him out of getting married and into spending the money on a world wide shopping spree for the two of us. He is not convinced yet and I don't think he ever will be. He wants to get married.
Now, my list of 5 thing I want to happen this year:
1. I'll get a fab job, maybe even run my own wine bar
2. I finally get my drivers license
3. We finish the apartment
4. Mr S and I travel to Paris and Rome
5. I will continue feeling good about myself and become a stronger person.
Best wishes for 2007
Love/E
Song of the day: Stay with you - John Legend
Thursday, December 28, 2006
Happily ever after
shall we be, my baby and me :)
Mr S gave the the bling bling phone and a new fierce bag that I have been craving. Actually he started out by giving me a scented candle and flavoured tea... not really my cup of tea so to speak...
Christmas with the family went surprisingly well. Mr S loved it. He hasn't had a "family christmas" since he was a kid and I've always had them. I gues you don't miss the water...
I'd still love to spend one christmas in Italy.
I only had 3 days off, so now I'm back at work. It's safe to say that nothing has changed: still a complete chaos. I haven't decided yet wheather I'm staying or not but since I'm not yet financially independent I have to have a job.
Our nem Maitre d' has brought in some of her old staff. They are nice and all that but she used to work in a rock club where they mostly sold beer and a shot on the side. I know for a fact that NH tries to be a bit more high end than that.
Had an interesting conversation with Mr S last night. Recently I've been feeling very happy lately in a surreal way. I guess I'm not used to it. Anyway, I felt like I use to feel when I'm on vacation, like I'm happy now but it'll soon end and then I realize that this won't end...at least I hope so.
The funny thing is that he has been feeling the same way.
Maybe we are a perfect match after all :)
Take care
Love /E
Song of the day: We could be heroes - BWO
Mr S gave the the bling bling phone and a new fierce bag that I have been craving. Actually he started out by giving me a scented candle and flavoured tea... not really my cup of tea so to speak...
Christmas with the family went surprisingly well. Mr S loved it. He hasn't had a "family christmas" since he was a kid and I've always had them. I gues you don't miss the water...
I'd still love to spend one christmas in Italy.
I only had 3 days off, so now I'm back at work. It's safe to say that nothing has changed: still a complete chaos. I haven't decided yet wheather I'm staying or not but since I'm not yet financially independent I have to have a job.
Our nem Maitre d' has brought in some of her old staff. They are nice and all that but she used to work in a rock club where they mostly sold beer and a shot on the side. I know for a fact that NH tries to be a bit more high end than that.
Had an interesting conversation with Mr S last night. Recently I've been feeling very happy lately in a surreal way. I guess I'm not used to it. Anyway, I felt like I use to feel when I'm on vacation, like I'm happy now but it'll soon end and then I realize that this won't end...at least I hope so.
The funny thing is that he has been feeling the same way.
Maybe we are a perfect match after all :)
Take care
Love /E
Song of the day: We could be heroes - BWO
Monday, December 25, 2006
Happy Holidays
From all fo me to all of you:
A Very Merry Xmas
Love /E
Song of the day - God rest ye merry gentlemen (trad)
A Very Merry Xmas
Love /E
Song of the day - God rest ye merry gentlemen (trad)
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Asking my Baby
Found this on the blog site of one of my fab friends
Instructions:
1. Put your music player on shuffle.
2. Press forward for each question.
3. Use the song title as the answer to the question even if it doesn't make sense.
Will it be ok?
Kiss - Prince (hm, kisses are good thing so I guess the answer is yes)
How are you feeling today?
Separated - Usher (will be working late tonight so won't be able to hang out with friends)
How do your friends see you?
Sunshine in the Rain - Bodies Without Organs :)
Will you get married?
Same Script, Different Cast - Whitney Houston feat Deborah Cox (hm, Mr S has one divorce in the baggage)
What is your best friend's theme song?
Summer Wine - Peter Joback (Hannah, this is for you, girl :))
What is the story of your life?
T. T. P. - Usher (ok, I guess)
What was high school like?
As - George Michael feat MJB
How can you get ahead in life?
I Have Nothing - Whitney Houston
What is the best thing about your friends?
If your girl only knew - Aaliyah
What is tonight going to be like?
I can't let you go - Usher (might be excepting one of those "could you come in a bit earlier"- calls from work then...)
What is in store for the remainder of this weekend?
Larger than Life - Backstreet Boys (it's Xmas and all...)
What song describes you?
Sex Bomb - Tom Jones (why Thanks ;))
Instructions:
1. Put your music player on shuffle.
2. Press forward for each question.
3. Use the song title as the answer to the question even if it doesn't make sense.
Will it be ok?
Kiss - Prince (hm, kisses are good thing so I guess the answer is yes)
How are you feeling today?
Separated - Usher (will be working late tonight so won't be able to hang out with friends)
How do your friends see you?
Sunshine in the Rain - Bodies Without Organs :)
Will you get married?
Same Script, Different Cast - Whitney Houston feat Deborah Cox (hm, Mr S has one divorce in the baggage)
What is your best friend's theme song?
Summer Wine - Peter Joback (Hannah, this is for you, girl :))
What is the story of your life?
T. T. P. - Usher (ok, I guess)
What was high school like?
As - George Michael feat MJB
How can you get ahead in life?
I Have Nothing - Whitney Houston
What is the best thing about your friends?
If your girl only knew - Aaliyah
What is tonight going to be like?
I can't let you go - Usher (might be excepting one of those "could you come in a bit earlier"- calls from work then...)
What is in store for the remainder of this weekend?
Larger than Life - Backstreet Boys (it's Xmas and all...)
What song describes you?
Sex Bomb - Tom Jones (why Thanks ;))
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Dilemma
Imagine the following scenario:
You have this woman friend, who after a rough divorce with infidelity and the works, is finally dating again. She goes online and finds a man on an on line dating service. They chat on line and talk on the phone and after a while they meet IRL. They really hit it off, no sex on the first date though.
Then he breaks the news: he is married and hopes she doesn't have a problem with that. Your friend is obviously devastated and wants to call the wife and tell her the whole story.
What would you do?
1. Encourage her to call and hold her hand while she did it?
2. Talk her out of calling the wife. She has wasted enough time on this two timing dog and she should get on with her life and leave him in his misery.
3. Call the wife yourself?
I'd go with option no 2. It's not my place to reveal someone infidelity. I do think however that had the wife been a friend of mine I would have reacted differently. I probably would have told her but I would have given her some hints.
On some level I think you'd sense it if your partner is cheating on you. I think that is what they call going through life with your eyes wide shut...
Apartment update:
Almost done!
Wedding plans update:
None
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Not ready to make nice - Dixie Chicks
You have this woman friend, who after a rough divorce with infidelity and the works, is finally dating again. She goes online and finds a man on an on line dating service. They chat on line and talk on the phone and after a while they meet IRL. They really hit it off, no sex on the first date though.
Then he breaks the news: he is married and hopes she doesn't have a problem with that. Your friend is obviously devastated and wants to call the wife and tell her the whole story.
What would you do?
1. Encourage her to call and hold her hand while she did it?
2. Talk her out of calling the wife. She has wasted enough time on this two timing dog and she should get on with her life and leave him in his misery.
3. Call the wife yourself?
I'd go with option no 2. It's not my place to reveal someone infidelity. I do think however that had the wife been a friend of mine I would have reacted differently. I probably would have told her but I would have given her some hints.
On some level I think you'd sense it if your partner is cheating on you. I think that is what they call going through life with your eyes wide shut...
Apartment update:
Almost done!
Wedding plans update:
None
Take care
Love/E
Song of the day: Not ready to make nice - Dixie Chicks
Monday, December 04, 2006
Got to love it
Leonard Katzman - does the name ring a bell?? It's the man who wrote, directed and produced Dallas, the ultimate soap opera. A new TV channel TV4 Gold is all about old series so today I've watched Kojak, Miami Vice, at the moment Dallas and I'm looking forward to Baywatch and Baretta later tonight. Am at home today trying to cure my stomach flu.
The weekend was nice. Friday Mr S came back from Munich with a new job offer and a lovely bottle of champagne for me :) I was totally beat from the last weeks of too much work so I had some wine and take out thaifood and fell asleep around midnight.
Saturday we did some quick shopping for the apartment. I bought another lovely black vase and then we met up with sis and Jocke for an all French dinner. The food was OK - no more no less. I did expect more since the restaurant got some really great reviews lately.
I have deleted Dr C from my cell phone. I can't really see any reason why I should keep his number, it's not like I'm going to call him again.
When I am in "his" part of town I keep looking over my shoulder in case I would run into him. One part of me hopes to met him and "show off" Mr S just to make him see that I am worth so much more and so much better that what he gave me but on the other hand it's no point because I really don't think he cares.
I have also given some of my friendships a lot of thought lately. I need to surround myself with people who wishes me well. I can't stand the negativity and jealousy some people around me seems to live with.
Later today I'm going to make a CD for sis. She seemed quite down on Saturday so I think some good music will cheer her up a bit.
Seems like this summers holiday will be a road trip to Munich, could be great fun :)
Take care/E
Song of the day: Black Velvet - Alannah Myles
The weekend was nice. Friday Mr S came back from Munich with a new job offer and a lovely bottle of champagne for me :) I was totally beat from the last weeks of too much work so I had some wine and take out thaifood and fell asleep around midnight.
Saturday we did some quick shopping for the apartment. I bought another lovely black vase and then we met up with sis and Jocke for an all French dinner. The food was OK - no more no less. I did expect more since the restaurant got some really great reviews lately.
I have deleted Dr C from my cell phone. I can't really see any reason why I should keep his number, it's not like I'm going to call him again.
When I am in "his" part of town I keep looking over my shoulder in case I would run into him. One part of me hopes to met him and "show off" Mr S just to make him see that I am worth so much more and so much better that what he gave me but on the other hand it's no point because I really don't think he cares.
I have also given some of my friendships a lot of thought lately. I need to surround myself with people who wishes me well. I can't stand the negativity and jealousy some people around me seems to live with.
Later today I'm going to make a CD for sis. She seemed quite down on Saturday so I think some good music will cheer her up a bit.
Seems like this summers holiday will be a road trip to Munich, could be great fun :)
Take care/E
Song of the day: Black Velvet - Alannah Myles
Thursday, November 30, 2006
With a little bit of luck...
and some work we'll be done with the apartment this week end :)
Mr S is in Munich on a job interview. I really hope he gets that job since that company has an office in Paris and I would love to live there :)
At work it's the usual chaos. But I believe it hit rock bottom two night ago when a large group came in, ordered the most expensive champagne we have and unpacked 3 bags of take out hamburgers... people never stop amazing me. And just to make matters worse the left without paying the bill. Fortunately they were staying at the hotel so we could find them.
The new Maitre D' seems to be an odd figure, I can't really figure her out yet.
Bought three amazing lamps last week end, probably the most expensive lamps I've ever bought but they were totally worth the money. Ran into Stepbro with wife and 2 kids at the furniture store. The kids are cute and all that but I'm so glad that they are not mine and it's not my life. I'm happy living in an apartment with white walls with Mr S.
At the moment I'm working on finding a kitchen we both like, and a bathroom.
Have the weekend off so tomorrow I'm going shoe shopping ;) Haven't bought new shoes in a while. Actually I think I'm going to buy some shoes and then pick up a glossy magazine and have a late lunch and a cosmopolitan or a glass of champagne. Oh yes, sounds like a lovely plan for Friday!
Now back to the laundry.
Take care
/E
Song of the day: Heaven - John Legend
Mr S is in Munich on a job interview. I really hope he gets that job since that company has an office in Paris and I would love to live there :)
At work it's the usual chaos. But I believe it hit rock bottom two night ago when a large group came in, ordered the most expensive champagne we have and unpacked 3 bags of take out hamburgers... people never stop amazing me. And just to make matters worse the left without paying the bill. Fortunately they were staying at the hotel so we could find them.
The new Maitre D' seems to be an odd figure, I can't really figure her out yet.
Bought three amazing lamps last week end, probably the most expensive lamps I've ever bought but they were totally worth the money. Ran into Stepbro with wife and 2 kids at the furniture store. The kids are cute and all that but I'm so glad that they are not mine and it's not my life. I'm happy living in an apartment with white walls with Mr S.
At the moment I'm working on finding a kitchen we both like, and a bathroom.
Have the weekend off so tomorrow I'm going shoe shopping ;) Haven't bought new shoes in a while. Actually I think I'm going to buy some shoes and then pick up a glossy magazine and have a late lunch and a cosmopolitan or a glass of champagne. Oh yes, sounds like a lovely plan for Friday!
Now back to the laundry.
Take care
/E
Song of the day: Heaven - John Legend
Friday, November 24, 2006
Ups and Downs
On the upside:
- new winter coat from Zara
- got a nice offer from the hotel manager at work: will get a dinner for two all expenses payed by work. Guess I must be doing something right :)
- Sunday brunch with sis and a bit of shopping
- Walk in closet almost done
- New bed delivered
On the downside:
- Didn't know that renovating would take so long
- Dust everywhere
- Too much work leaves no time to play
- Creepy guests at the restaurant (Finnish guy got drunk and fell asleep at his table...)
Mr S promised me that the renovating will be done by next week but I have my doubts. As I think about it the apartment wasn't that bad...
Take care/E
Song of the day: The Max - Prince
- new winter coat from Zara
- got a nice offer from the hotel manager at work: will get a dinner for two all expenses payed by work. Guess I must be doing something right :)
- Sunday brunch with sis and a bit of shopping
- Walk in closet almost done
- New bed delivered
On the downside:
- Didn't know that renovating would take so long
- Dust everywhere
- Too much work leaves no time to play
- Creepy guests at the restaurant (Finnish guy got drunk and fell asleep at his table...)
Mr S promised me that the renovating will be done by next week but I have my doubts. As I think about it the apartment wasn't that bad...
Take care/E
Song of the day: The Max - Prince
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